Your opportunity to win an I-pad – and make a full-power start to the year. Challenge Five – Connection
Ok, so this is the Knowledge Source Power Challenge – your opportunity to set a cracking start to the year and win some great prizes.
It’s not too late to get on board. This is where we are at so far:
Challenge One: Energy
Challenge Two: Know your pain
Challenge Three: Take the reins
Challenge Four: Radical Honesty
Challenge Five: Connection
Challenge Six: LOCKED
Challenge Seven: LOCKED
Challenge Eight: LOCKED
Staying with relationships, and after having committed to a little more honesty on Friday, let’s have a look at how we can use our connections as a source of strength.
The truth is that humans are a pack animal. There’s a theory that (some of us) shed our fur so we could have more intimate connections and more ways to build social cohesion.
(Rub my belly and I’ll practically do anything for you.)
The uniquely human neo-cortex is devoted to language and managing our social relationships. We didn’t get to the top of the food chain through opposable thumbs alone – we did it because we could work in teams and build cultures of knowledge that could be passed down through time.
We are social by design.
And so I think that if we’re cut off from our ‘pack’, it is a stress that starts to niggle at our biological organism. By the same token, the more intimate connections we have, the more we are touched, and the more we feel supported by our pack, then the stronger and the more confident we feel.
And I’ve learnt that if there’s anything I can do that will make me feel more confident and more powerful, then I will do it. Don’t underestimate the challenges that we’re facing.
So this is for you challenge for today. Tell us what it is that makes you feel supported by your pack, and how you’re planning to tap more of that energy this year.
It really could be anything. Humans are multi-spectrum beings. It could be a regular phone hook up with your brother. It could be Ladies’ Night at the day-spa. It could be sport (which is primarily an excuse for grown men to have a cuddle, let’s be honest).
But look for the connections that give you strength, that give you confidence, that increase the depth of your resources.
Note that I’m not talking about connection as a way to increase your sense of meaning. Looking after an infant gives you purpose, but it doesn’t increase your power. What connections give you strength?
*** BONUS CHALLENGE ***
Pay particular attention to the individuals that give you strength. So say if, like me, your footy team is a source of strength for you, pay attention to which individuals in particular really lift you up.
Or what friend always inspires you? What friend always has your back?
Now send them a short note. Just say, “Hey, been doing a bit of thinking over the break. Just wanted to let you know you’ve always been an inspiring influence in my life. I appreciate having you around.”
This year, give a little more attention to the power connections in your life, and be open to the energy that is returned.
That’s it. Hit up the comments section and let us know
Where and how do you connect with your power pack? How can you do it more this year?
BONUS
Send someone a short note of gratitude. Tell them you’re glad they’re in your corner.
And let’s power-up, together.
Jon
Ps – It’s not too late for anyone to get involved. If you’re sending someone a note, why not invite them into this challenge? There’s still three more juicy challenges to go.
Ang says
Hi there Jon. ? Not easy to make and bank money ?.. Sounds easy…
Edwirn says
There is this ‘Train Buddy’ Walker, who has been a good listener and beautiful person, overall, to go with, will now make it a point for Walker to be my ‘Power Connection’
Aaron says
My kids are great support as they have started taking an interest in both my property and trading interests.
Explaining currency trading, rental properties and finance to an 8 & 10 yr old makes you look at things in a less complex way. Explaining investment decisions and answering questions on trading profits at their level helps keep me accountable and often gives a fresh perspective.
Jason says
Singing seriously chasing investment opportunities & taking a very serious approach. I’ve enjoyed the network connections I’ve found while networking towards my goals. Especially when you find out one or more of your connections literally lives streets away in the next suburb.
Andrew Grotherr says
I regularly connect with my power pack (30-year old best friend / like minded business colleagues) through regular discussion groups, coffee meetings etc and social functions .
Also through FB groups. I will attend more catch ups this year more regularly particularly in person and through organised seminars and lectures.
Lisa says
Connect with my power pack’/s twice yearly through his trips.
I can do it more by not waiting for the trips away and instead giving them a call.
Jim says
It’s an old saying “Happy Wife, Happy Life” and it’s true, Funny enough it works. I sit down after work (day job) and have a cuppa with the wife and we talk about our days good or bad and I have found we just get on better as a couple and family, Without her and a close connection I would be so far off track in every direction and be lost with any project we take on.
Noel Franks says
There are 3 individuals/group that have supported my challenges and strengths in life.. My wife is my greatest team supporter and rock. When I fail at I financial decision, she reminds me that it was partnership decision, and she was just as equal to blame if the investment failed. The second is my son. We tried to instill strong work ethics in him and never give up due to a set back. He started his own computer business, and yes there were set backs but he stuck at it . Today he is very successful. Strong family ties are important for leadership and growth. 3rd is my grandchildren. As adults we can make life complicated. Then you look through there eyes at the simple things in life and realise what is important. That leadership,growth and power can come from observing the little things in life. Every investment decision doesn’t have to be complicated. Team family is the greatest support.
Andrew Marcos says
I connect to my power pack by speaking to my team outside work like over dinner or coffee. It is the best way to share ideas and move forward with new visions. I should make this a weekly or fortnightly thing to connect to the power pack.
Donna McQuillan says
My power sources right now are:
1. Two groups of girlfriends
2. ILRE community
3. ILRE Albury group
4. Amazon Group
Being in regular contact with these groups keeps me grateful, encouraged and pumped
Lydiap says
spending time with family and friends broaden my horizon walking along the beach eating out and ice cream in a hot weather
focusing more on potential neighbourhoods to create cashflow passive income Enjoyable Energizing!!
Vera says
My best friend, never judging, always supportive, understanding and positive. We catch up on regular basis.
Explore and network with other like minded people.
Carolyn says
My close circle of childhood friends and my biggest supporter in life – my mum.
Claire says
Where and how do you connect with your power pack?
The majority of my interactions are carried out on horseback, in kayaks or at dinner. As a bit of a lone wolf (introvert) I find it hard sometimes to force myself to actually interact with my pack, but I always feel better when I do.
How can you do it more this year?
By forcing myself out of my comfort zone and making an effort to accept more invitations
marx says
My family provide me with all the energy and drive I could ever require. From the young ones who provide amazing inspiration to the oldies with unwavering commitment to all of the variables of life(which I am one of)
Mike Day says
I feel Supported by multiple packs:
– Ice Hockey Team
– Parents group from my Daughters primary and high school friends circles
– Property Development Group’s I belong to
– New friends I’ve developed in last few months.
I feel supported by these different packs in that I’m part of a group of like minded people I can share success and failure with without judgement and get support from them. Words of encouragement, advice through experiences they’ve had, or make new connections through some of their connections outside our group.
Bonus Challenge
A new friend I’ve made recently in last 4 months has been a huge source of inspiration and support to me. We speak every few days to check in with one another. She has been a light I needed and that was missing from all my other circles of friends.
CHRISTINE WHEELER says
I have 3 sources of connection and support, each one has a different place in my life. The first and most important are my children, each one supports me as l support them in so many different ways, through our time spent talking, debating, and just having fun together it’s all part of who l am . By taking the lead in the family now it helps me to grow . The second is the community in ILRE they have given me guidance and support and has made me feel l belong and have purpose, l am going to go to as many meetings and events this year as possible. The third is my best friend of 45 years she has been there for me through all of my trauma and am going to take her away with me to say thanks for being there. But l will allso have more catch ups with her and not let it drag out to months.
Brett says
I have 3 mentors in my life that has loved supported and encouraged me. Even though I currently don’t attend a church over the yrs church life has been a big positive influence in my life. Recently married I would say my wife has been my biggest supporter that makes me feel I’m capable of anything
Heather Wilson says
My support and personal connection comes firstly through my husband. Our daughters and their families.
An amazing support are the ILRE community, they believe in all we do and encourage us when there are trials along the way.
Although our most supportive in our life goals are our close Platinum whatsapp group, we connect every few days and meet up every few weeks thus making us accountable and keeping us on track.
Mark says
I find that in general conversation with certain friends who are more successful in business and life, hearing them talk about what they have on for the day/week/future, how they plan to attack it and their strategies, and realising they do a hell of a lot of work to achieve it. This really inspires me, and i start to think of how i can implement these things into my life and business.
Michael says
My 3 packs consist of family, work friends and church friends. I feel supported by them when they listen and provide caring feedback whether that be what I want to hear or not.
I already talk very openly about my plans and the thinking behind them and listen to their feedback….so I will now invite future followup from them with me as I take action.
Bonus
Hey XXX, I really appreciated it when you xxxxxxxxxx
Stephen Bathgate says
My wife gives me strength daily as she is strong minded, assertive while being caring/thoughtful, can say no & stick to it, gives me a different perspective on my sometimes one sided views and is amazing mother to our boys. She’s also taught me that it is important to look after ourselves first so that we can show our kids self love is what makes us strong.
Jeen says
My life is pretty isolated and there is only one friend whom I can safely talk to about ILRE where I feel supported and encouraged by her. There are some on the community who have given support in their own way and I am grateful for that. But more and more, I realize that I need to connect more with myself, as ultimately, I am the only one that can buoy myself up, I am the one that I need to believe in, I am the one that need to make things happen. I am starting to tap into that by meditation and finding that support with like-minded people. I believe that if I can connect with myself better, I will connect with others on a higher level.
Lisa D says
If you can connect with yourself through meditation, then you can hear your inner voice which is the intuition guiding you… much better to follow than others opinions, xx
Tom says
I go to a free-form dance class every week. I often feel that pack has my back.
David says
My pack includes my wife first and then my family and then my friends.
The people in my pack, while supportive, don’t understand what I am trying to create and achieve. It is therefore difficult to tap into any propelling power to move forwards.
I therefore have to primarily rely on my email subscriptions for strength, empowerment and getting the creative juices flowing.
Peter says
Sorry. But I’m not like that. In fact I reckon if you need your ‘pack’ for strength or whatever, sooner or later you are going to be bitterly disappointed. I couldn’t tell you how many times I’ve said to myself ‘If it is to be ., it’s up to me’…and just got on with it. My very best friend is my wife of many years ( she made a good choice !) and that’s pretty much it. I often say to her (in good humour) ‘There’s only me & thee …and I’m a bit concerned about thee’. Final bit of philosophy …’He who travels fastest travels alone’. Learn NOT to need any pack. In fact ……leave ’em in your dust !!
fiona says
What connections give me strength?
– Being part of Challenges like this one
– Podcasts listing to others that are successful
– Personal Development
Bonus
Just sent my text off waiting to hear back.
Ian Martin says
My pack have really stepped forward to support me at this time….My wife and sons have had a meeting and have come on board to be my financial partners….. They know that my finances are ruined ( by no fault of my own doing ) since my accident… But they know that I am driven to succeed in the realestate community…..With their support, I will…
Malcolm Gibson says
Connection with my sons and daughter, the crew at work , Shares group and Property group. Going more this year to the meet-ups, having children with me more , sharing openly rather than control.
Going to a more aligned singing group to share more singing.
Power from motivated inspiring people..
JOHN B says
Monthly contact with my remaining brother has brought us closer and made us stronger. My mentor is a big help with shares and reigns in some if my ideas but doesn’t stop me if I want to do something. Dinners with other like minded people and listening to their stories. Sometimes I think the wives are a lot smarter with shares. West Coast Eagles winning or losing gives me energy also.
HP says
Connecting with my significant other half
Paul Smith says
My pack are groups that have similar property interests as me.
To be able to get together as a group and bounce ideas and scenarios of each other is an invaluable resource
Best way to learn in my opinion
Michael says
Having worked away from home for over 5 years with only sporadic trips home at my expense, I have never felt so lonely. My support network was fellow project guys to confide in all manner of issues, but now they have left. I am looking forward to rekindling past close friends, and particularly my wife.
Belinda says
Literally was inspired to text an ILRE friend the second I started reading your blog Jon so thanks! Being connected by like minded peeps keeps me on track with my ambition and I need to give back more in that respect and build on my current connections and also make more, hopefully inspiring them too. Going to actually attend the local ILRE get togethers this year and keep in touch more regularly with my current connections. Would it be weird to send the bonus shout out to someone in the community I’ve only managed to FB meet (read stalk) so far, I lost my courage at the super conference to introduce myself??
Lisa D says
YES, GO FOR IT!!!!!
Scott says
My close knit group of friends are my pack and we are all like minded people, you become like them naturally and it does help when you are on the same page with family values and general life goals (same but different), we catch up quite regularly bug more intimate bbq’s never harmed anybody
I’m glad my wife is in my corner
Al says
My power sources are:
1) My other half. She has surprising insights.
2) my best mate, Liam. as a business owner, he’s very astute and provides much clarity.
3) several current and former work colleagues whom I can bounce my feelings off.
This year:
1) engage the other half more in investment ideas and projects;
2) Share my ideas with Liam before diving in;
3) catch up with the work colleagues more frequently in casual settings
Adam Stone says
I feel supported and feed off a weekly running group – that’s my pack, It’s quite a large group and I’m still getting to know several of them so I will tap into more of the group energy this year by getting to know more of them and, building existing relationships.
Eug says
I am incredibly fortunate and grateful to work with a team at work who are switched on, care about the bigger picture and show it through action, cooperative, communicate openly and are individuals who I can have a meaningful conversation with beyond just work. The conversations are true dialogues that go beyond mundane small talk. These conversations give me energy and this year, I will be continuing to make the time to have more of these conversations with “my pack”.
Simon says
My number one power pack is my wife. She gets me more than anyone else and gives me the energy to be my best at all times.
My other main power pack would be my old friends from back home. We don’t see each often anymore but when we do I come out of our meetings feeling invigorated and ready to take on the world.
Lisa D says
My power pack are my strong women friends who bolster and support me in all I do. I am committed to see them more regularly throughout the year, and to join in the ILRE groups and go to any meetings in my area. If there are none, I will start a local group myself!
Anyone from the Northern Beaches in Sydney??
Bonus challenge: 4 messages sent to good friends, with a request for a catch up this month.
Felicity says
My power pack is the people I’ve met through my property investing journey. I currently catch up with them a couple of times a month, but I want to pinpoint a few key individuals and build a relationship outside of regular group meetings this year.
Jane says
The girlfriends I grew up with, from kindergarten to high school, are my power pack. We are all so very different and have taken very different life paths, but that’s our strength. I wouldn’t talk to these girls about my challenges with my business, but everything else is fair game. These girls have got my back, and me theirs. I’m saying ‘girls’ as if we are still at school; we’re all now in our mid 50s! 🙂 We’re spread across the globe, so a whatsapp group is our main form of contact. This year I’ll plan to connect more often. And for the bonus, a collective message is going out to them all right now.
Sally says
I connect with my Power Pack by talking to and catching up with a couple of good friends for girly stuff (we don’t catch up enough), talking to my mum and sister, and chatting properly with my hubby while we relax in the spa and watch the sunset. There’s also a few awesome mentors who I love catching up and chewing the fat with, so I organise clinics with them and then host them so that I get to chat after the clinic with them and while picking them up & dropping them off at the airport (they are captive audiences then!!)
Jen says
My business partner in real estate is my go-to person. When I’ve needed a but of figurative hand- holding there is no one else that knows me as well. It helps to have someone with whom to bounce ideas,
Gil says
My partner is my biggest inspiration in that he has come through some major life changes and still has a positive attitude. He has encouraged and supported my real estate endeavours and been there for me 100% as my latest purchase has been a very drawn out “mortgagee in possession” house.(very stressful)
My bestie has been my next biggest inspiration with her encouragement I have moved outside my comfort zone and achieved goals not previously imagined.
Text message sent.
Andrew says
I am going to expand my power connections this year even more however my wife and family are a great source of inspiration. My new friends from the USA who Ive known for only five years now have become a great source of mentor ship and inspiration.
Some of the ILRE community who I haven’t seen for a while will definitely get a message of gratitude and an overdue catch up.
Victoria Mizzi says
Poor Peter above. Has he never heard of the flying V formation of migratory birds? Together they can fly further and faster than alone due to the aerodynamics of lift. Works with people too.
My packs dwindled away when I left my land of birth, then dwindled away again when I left my ex-husband. My grown son left with me so he was my support pack until I started to slowly expand my circle. My confidence had taken a hit when my ‘marriage friends’ and ‘property friends’ dropped away after I separated, and made a few lifestyle choices they weren’t comfortable with. One couple stuck close – love you Mike and Tracey! I met a young man, and they welcomed him too. They stood up with us at our wedding March last year, and we’ve had some happy times over the tools on a reno, or over champagne. My gorgeous new husband is the most supportive person I’ve ever met. Lucky me, four people that always have my back.
And then there’s my family, now all in Brisbane, visited once during 23+ years of marriage, but somehow we managed to visit my ex-husband’s family in N.Z. annually or biannually. Occasional phone calls were our whole contact. This last Christmas has been my best in years. We went to Brisbane, so did my son, so the whole family was together for the first time in over 20 years. I reconnected with my tribe. Add another seven.
What I hadn’t realised was that my computer and social media phobia was keeping me from tapping into my extended property group that were there for me all along, as were my siblings and nieces. Now I’m a lot more Facebook savvy, thanks to my husband. When I want to tap in and feel the love/energy/support I just plug in. Although I’m working from home, I don’t spend hours on Facebook, maybe 5-10 minutes in the morning, and 10-15 in the evening. But I know that if I need a wing flapping with mine, they’re only a click away. Add even more!
So, I told Trace I love her and appreciate having her in my life today, and there’s a couple of family members I will send special notes to so they know they light up my life.
Cheers.
Inconsciente Colectivo says
Hi there Jon. ? Not easy to make and bank money ?.. Sounds easy…
Tony (kiwi) says
The world collective is my inspiration
Jeni says
My all time power pack are my 3 grown children. Lately also has been my Platinum Accelerator Buddy who has been Soo supportive and encouraging.
Bonus- just about to text them.
THERESIA JORDANS says
Unfortunately?? I don’t have a real support group or ‘pack’. I have to rely on myself which with the current (dragged out) financial and health situation continues to make me stronger.(although not feeling quite so strong atm). I have a couple of long standing friends but their interests are completely different from mine – they (and my family) are married with grown children and grand kids whereas I am single with a fur-baby. Loneliness is my biggest challenge. I will see my family at my sister’s 60th wedding anniversary and will make sure to let 2 of my sisters know that they do inspire me.
Karen says
Since the death of my partner last year I feel very much without a pack. He was my greatest supporter and strength. Like one of the responses above I’m learning to be much more trusting of my own counsel. Do I want a new pack? Your challenge Jon has started a whole new enquiry for me.
Matt Lee says
My Power pack is family believ it
or not.
My wife is a the top of my list. We have been working tooo improving our lives and lives of our children. When we drift apart, allowing thinulike work and children distract us we notice the wheels driving our goals get a bit wobbly. This year we have started of on the right foot making more time for each other to catch up o. Why’s gong on and what’s important.
My children, time with them is a bi driver. Wale cut just one of Year when we have just had weeks of holidays together. This time together drives me to make more time together ie less of my day job.
A few close friends I have confided in for years, with similar interests and motivations. We catch up
Regularly in person or on the phone. Check in on each other. Always offering encouragement, sharing info. Generally just looking out for each other.
With out the above mentioned people in my life, who knows where I would be.
Mal Barrett says
My family, particularly my partner, consistently inspire me to maintain the energy and strength to keep on keeping on. We moved to Perth recently and so far have met very few people that want to or are capable of exchanging energy in a positive, meaningful way. One of my objectives this year is to connect with as many inspiring people as I can. Bonus challenge – just sent a message of appreciation to my wife.
Jody Chambers says
No Pacman here (soz) I like to get it done solo. However I do have a great group of inspirational fella’s I can lean on if I need, or just go have a laugh and a box of brews with.
Meg Hogan says
My community is based on my partner and my son. They help visualise what I am trying to achieve. I also rope in occasional coaches I use and mentors Tony Robbins, Chris Duncan, Mark Rolton, Dymphna Boholt and even you Jon Giann. I am cautious on who I speak to as I have realised that my values and dreams are not other’s cup of tea, and I think I am lucky to know I can see things differently to my own advancement.
Bonus Challenge – I have just had a coaching session and told him that I am grateful for working with me to find results more readily.
Marcos Serrano says
My wife and I are pretty solid at talking about how we’re doing, how we’re supporting each other. We do 3 month review every quarter (which is super fun) and we’re just about to hit the big 40th review after 10 years together.
My best mate and I talk a fair bit on the phone, and try to catch up every week or two – family catchups, a frothy or two, a run, gym or yoga.
Always feel like I could call my brothers a bit more but we are close and definitely have each other’s backs. Same with my parents.
Surfing’s a big source of connection for me too – its a bit like going to the pub – see the boys, hang out, get a few waves. I always feel like there’s a base of support there for us all if we really needed it.
And finally, connecting with myself, having some time on planet Marcos, really makes a huge difference – I usually do this through journaling and it’s amazing the sense of connection this self reflection brings.
Bratislav says
I am grateful that i feel supp’orted by my family.
Tracy D says
Our friends and family are not in business or financially minded, really. This means we dont get support from them in a business/investor sense.
We lunch a couple of times a year with our accountant and financial planner/insurance broker, and that relationship has become a big part of our support network. We have become more than business associates with them as we have got to know them over the years. I realised the other day after one of our long lunches with them, how invigorated and positive I feel now for the year ahead after meeting with them again. I feel lucky to have this relationship.
Glenn Adams says
I have an old friend who has a similar background to me, I try to make time once or twice a month to catch up with him and “chew the fat”. This always lifts me up and fills my sails until the next catch up.
Eva says
I have been playing with the same group of hockey girls for many years now and couldn’t play last year due to injury. I have a goal to get back on the field with these ladies as we range in age from 30’s – 50’s and are still winning Grand Finals against women 1/2 our age, at least. We are successful as a team because we ALWAYS have each others backs on and off the field and these ladies have become some of my closest friends.
I have also spent the last few years educating myself on different investment strategies and now have a healthy property and share portfolio. Last year I signed up to a new strategy of website development and renovation to help with passive income and have been blessed with spending time with highly motivated and energised people and my plan for that this year is to attend more business networking meetings and expand my “pack” of connections and like-minded associates.
Deb says
My daughter and son are my greatest inspirations and my ‘pack’. They have a determination to succeed that I never had at that age (and maybe still don’t to that level) and a maturity and wisdom far beyond their years. They’re such hard workers and very dedicated to their passions, which they’ve both managed to pursue as careers with success. We have a great family bond and have worked well as a team over the years. I tap into that energy regularly but will be doing so more this year as we sell, move and take on some investment opportunities.
A mate and her hubby are also in the ILRE community on a similar path to freedom – we motivate each other with mini challenges such as ‘let’s do a vision board in the next few days and we’ll send each other a photo of it’ to make sure we follow through, or ‘do you want to come to this event with me’, or even just discussing our plans and how we intend getting there, so I feel that we support each other. I plan on tapping into that more this year by attending more events with them, including some of the longer ones, even if they’re being held interstate, which I’ve been unable to do previously due a lack of money and/or time due to working two jobs to keep afloat.
Bonus:
I’ve just sent text messages to both of my gorgeous ‘kids’ – bit too soppy to share sorry! :). I’ve also sent one to the mate mentioned above thanking her for keeping me motivated!
Andres says
My wife makes me feel supported. She is my column, the inspiration that she has every day is the moto of our future… So I will support her more than before in his thoughts.
BONUS CHALLENGE
My friend that is my rock is Julio, he is my inspiration, he is an entrepreneur in Europe, and now he is running an optical shop in Spain.
Reece Wenzel says
The people i work with are soo inspiring. I spend a lot of time at work around these people and they are some of the most creative peopleI know and have an awesome attitude towards work and are a privilege to be around. Our bosses are unique and are to thank for such an awesome community of people!
Drew Andrea says
I found this hard to narrow down because I get a great sense of empowerment from most people I spend my time with, even my work colleagues. I guess it’s because I drift away (or changed jobs) from people I don’t feel empowered by.
When people come to visit and we have a good laugh playing music that we all love then I feel on top of the world.
Urvi Hanj says
My mum has always been my role model for me. No matter what ups and downs we have been through together, she is sitting tight for us,
Hirotaka Yoshida says
I have met good friends or “mates” at each stage of my life, but somehow I find myself choose to be a bit lone wolf. e.g. gone overseas, moved interstate. So always ended up not keeping in touch with those good friends for long time, however when I occasionally catch up with them I always feel as if no time has past between us and also super energized. One of the reason I don’t catch up with them is probably that I don’t want to face the reality that “now I am so far away from them”, From now on I will keep in touch with them or at least send message from time to time.
I’ve just sent messages to whoever came up my mind while I was writing this and I’m glad that I did. Thanks for the challenge John.
Timbo says
When something negative happens, as it did just recently, I receive energy from not just family and friends (which you kind of expect) but from associates and work colleagues (which surprises me) who offer unsolicited support and positive reinforcement of myself. It really helps my determination and resolve.
I plan to keep in regular contact with more people in my circle and look to provide them with the same kind of energy whenever I can. I’ll also take the opportunity to do likewise for people I come in to contact with casually.
You give it out, you get it back, I’m sure.
Belinda says
I feel most supported by my pack when I have conversations that go beyond surface interaction. Conversations about vulnerability, fears, growth, spirituality and mindset all come to mind.
This year I have made irreversible commitments to meeting new groups of people including changing my workplace to position myself nearer positive like-minded people.
I had a conversation with a person I consider my mentor and told them how significant their impact is on my life and growth, both personal and property growth.
Rodger says
Having moved around 3 states, 40+ jobs, 50+ addresses, having a pack hasn’t really happened, I’ve got friends for life all over the place. Although I love these folks & they do support me, I usually feel more “dusty” than “inspired” after catching up with them ?
I have those I consider Mentors, Dymphna, Jon Giaan & having recently signed up with Mark Rolton, these folks inspire & guide me, I don’t feel they are the be all and end all
As a Christian I find my belief in the creator God of the universe & his love for me is my greatest source of support & the more I tap into that the better I feel & the better I am at whatever I’m doing ?. So my plan is to dig deeper into the Word & my relationship with God
My Baby sister has been with me throughout this crazy journey, we are both Black sheep & can talk about anything & she my reality check in it all? , so even through we chat at least once a month, sending her some love!!
Matt P says
I’m a strong believer that you are the result of your 5 closest friends. I try to make sure that the people that I hang around the most, are people that inspire me and give me this energising motivation!
I schedule a bi-monthly catch up with one of my closest friends who always gives me clarity for my goals and re-energises me to focus when I seem to have lost my way throughout a long week of work. He is a very successful person but also one of the most humble I have met.
I am catching up with him this weekend so will remind him what he does for me and share my gratitude!
Patricia says
Being an older single mum, who had my son late in life, my 12 year old son is my power pack. With no way of getting a mortgage in a low income job at my time of life, no assets and little savings, no extended family around or inheritance to come – just us two – he is my reason for being and my connection with him is my driving force in trying to rescue him from the vile future of eating rats that you just vividly painted in this email !!! – and this panic has been growing in me for a while now. When unpacking my Pandora’s power pack of panic, there is a little package of hope at the bottom. It is the real estate communities and personal growth communities that I belong to (a few under the knowledge source umbrella) that are helping me to work out ways to try and save my son from having to eat the rats – and hopefully prevent the rats from eating me – alive – in some old people’s home (don’t know if any of you remember that incident that hit the news a few years ago)!
That said, I connect with a higher spiritual power within and without myself, that helps me to see with perspective and purpose and powers me up.
Kris Anderson says
A hug and kiss from my family. And, Wise words from my friends.
Melissa says
My “pack” consists of 3 people.
1) My best friend of 34 years has given me a HUGE amount of support, positive energy and love over the years. I’m not sure I would still be here without her.
2) My cousin who is 8 months older than me. We grew up together, our families lived in separate wings of the family home in Ivanhoe. We have always been closer than sisters, possibly because we did not have the sibling rivalry. She is an amazing example to me of someone who can be caring, giving and supportive to others whilst maintaining balance for her own needs.
3) The most recent is my employer and mentor. He is giving me an invaluable opportunity to learn and grow. He encourages potential and enjoys helping people to become successful even when the only reward for him is the satisfaction of seeing their success.
I have recognised the value of these people in my life and already connect as often as possible.
Text messages were sent last Tuesday to my friend, last Saturday to my cousin and verbally to my employer last Tuesday.
Benny says
The most supported and empowered feeling is when I meet with my power pack (honestly… my team of highly committed leaders at work) once a month, and discuss how we can do things better. We feed off each other’s thoughts and ideas, occasionally shoot each other down, but generally take one idea and explore it through a range of options to bring it to reality. We all leave there a bit more enthusiastic and with drive to work with our teams to make things better, more productive and more of a winning team.
I have already made a commitment to be more grateful for those in my life who are on this journey with me. Not just those that inspire me our help me, but those that are just there sharing our valuable minutes together.
Chris says
My pack is made up of both my family and friends. Each has a different role within this. My wife is my biggest support by always backing me in what I do, but more importantly in following her own dreams. Having someone so close to you that is also succeeding is immensely powerful in helping to drive me forward. My close friends are great to bounce ideas off and also accept me for who I really am. This is important as being able to stay true to who I am is crucial in staying aligned with my purpose and achieving the goals I set. My Family are always there for me and I know that I have them there to talk through life’s challenges as they arise. In order to tap more of this energy this year I must tell my pack how much I appreciate their support more regularly. I will also dedicate more time to building stronger relationships with each and giving back whenever I can.
Mario says
My close group of friends and my wife
tammy says
My pack consisted of partner, a close friend and my family.
Bonus Challenge:
continue to focus on my specific 2019 goals and challenges like this, which keep me in check and thinking and brainstorming my next move, how can i do things better!
Belinda says
a walk or drink with friends weekly to fortnightly
seeing my driven and successful clients, the 10 -15 regulars that I see every week who inspire and encourage me
the closed face book groups that you can lean into for specific advice on particular interests such as property, health, amazon, personal development…. all areas really leading to the end goal of being a better person, adding value to interactions I have with others and getting my shit together
Susanne Kendall says
I feel supported by my pack when my questions/concerns are taken seriously especially when it is in regards to investing or money. Also when they offer solutions/suggestions by tapping in to the experiences they have had. I get this support from ILRE monthly meeting , husband & also our broker. Plan to have more conversations & ask more questions that relate to our goals moving forward. In the past i wouldnt really share much as we didnt really have a plan.
William Gilfillan says
1. Tell us what it is that makes you feel supported by your pack, and how you’re planning to tap more of that energy this year. Use your connections or social relationships as a source of strength.
I regularly keep in phone contact with my brother that gives me the most social support & strength. We exchange ideas on things & support each other. To a lesser extent, some supportive friends also gives me strength.
2.*** BONUS CHALLENGE ***
Pay particular attention to the individuals that give you strength & pay attention to which individuals in particular really lift you up. Or what friend always inspires you? What friend always has your back? Send someone a short note of gratitude. Tell them you’re glad they’re in your corner.
My brother is the main person who usually lifts me up. I regularly communicate to let him know that I appreciate him having my back. I don’t particularly have any one person as an inspiring influence in my life, except my father (deceased) who was inspiring. . However, it is always inspirational when people succeed through Real Estate.
Steve says
My power pack are 4 amazing individuals who all have my back in different ways, My partner first and foremost has been my greatest source of support and encouragement. I may never have got started with my first property project had it not been for her belief in my goals, her support and encouragement when I fell down or was flat or a swift kick up the backside when I needed it most. Thanks so much honey coz I know you’ll read this:-)
The 2nd in my pack is my best buddy who has been to hell and back time and time again, and whilst he’s going through so much, he still often has a positive outlook which inspires me to keep going when it gets tough, I’m sending a message to him right now
The 3rd in my pack is my JV partner who, without her I would not have had the courage or financial ability to do my first property deal without risking everything. She is very encouraging and has an amazing sense of design and loves shopping for bargains in renovation appliances, hardware and home-wares… something I hate with a passion, Text message sent
My 4th in my pack is another buddy who like me and my partner, has found the perfect match on eharmony,through using the law of attraction and taking action. He has amazing woodworking skills and has been helpful and encouraging. Text message sent.
I’m so grateful for having these 4 individuals in my life and am happy to tell them so.
Steve says
I’m planning to tap more of that energy by being more supportive and encouraging to these 4 wonderful people…. what goes around comes around.
michael johnson says
The more I think about it the more i realise im surrounded by people who are dragging me down. I constantly get told ‘just work harder, get a good job’ etc etc dont try any ‘risky’ investing ideas. I have recenty started to engage regularly with property people and have attended meetups when i can (dam night shift…..) and can see the value/motivation it provides.
Gilles says
Every friday evening I meet a friend who has a great energy. We don’t live our lives with the same principles but he understand me and I understand him. We support each other in whatever the other one do. I don’t really want to rely too much on this energy though. This is a bonus. I rely on my own to achieve my goals. I could network a bit more with expert property investor though.
Sandie says
My husband is my rock,my power pack. My daughter is too, but I don’t share all my hopes and dreams with her, as I do my husband. But they both support me 100%, listen, encourage and support me always. I will continue to encourage and support them, be their power packs, as they are mine.
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Bratislav says
I would like to be unconditionally supported by my closest family. But regardless of that I keep going anyway.
Eldon Stevenson says
Being an introvert, I don’t have a large pack. . . so I would say my wife is my “pack”. I feel supported when my wife and I work well together on a project and see it through to completion.
Gary Boote says
Thankyou again John.
This challenge has made me pay attention to an area I must keep working on.
I’m usually fairly independent. Often the person reaching out and supporting others.
A few years ago I reached out and trusted people in difficult circumstances and was hurt. But now my son, some Christian friends, the ILRE community and some outdoor pursuits friends have been hugely supportive as I start again to rebuild my life and a real estate base again.
And an amazing thing happened. I reconnected with a life long friend, my oldest friend in fact to discover his similar journey and our mutual support rekindled. We contact each other much more often again and I am slowly starting to trust again. Better call him today and add this bit of the story.
Gary says
Thankyou again John.
This challenge has made me pay attention to an area I must keep working on.
I’m usually fairly independent. Often I’m the person reaching out and supporting others.
A few years ago I reached out and supported people I trusted when I needed help in difficult circumstances and was really hurt by some of their bad behaviour.
But now my son, some Christian friends, the ILRE community and some outdoor pursuits friends have been hugely supportive as I start again to rebuild my life and real estate base again.
And the amazing thing that happened was that I reconnected with a life long friend, my oldest friend, in fact and discovered his similar journey and our mutual support has rekindled. We contact each other more regularly again and I am slowly starting to trust again. Better call him today and add this bit to the story.
sue says
Supporters identified. Thanked and catch ups organised to ensure regular contact of sorts rather than on needs basis which has a nicer feel.
Gratitude notes brought a tear to my eyes.
We all need to have a safe and supportive corner to move forward from.
Thank you for highlighting mine.
Linda says
I am self employed, working under the umbrella of a fantastic company. No one is left behind and support comes from higher up and those on the ground doing all the leg work. They have a secret Facebook page where you can vent, ask for advice, guidance, training or just a lovely pep message for everyone, It’s a lovely family of like minded people. Just the other week, I dropped into HQ for a surprise visit and they welcomed my unannounced visit with open arms and showed me all the work that goes on behind the scenes to keep the business going.
Susana says
I get support from my parents and group of friends, also with contacts on facebook. I usually meet up with a group on Tuesdays and Saturdays. I’m going to try to go more to the meetings on Tuesdays which I don’t always go to. This is true if I will be more available in the first half of the year. My dad is especially good help and support.
Louise says
I feel very isolated since giving up work to care for my dad full time, unable to leave him alone, so I utilise the phone, my daughter supports me from across state lines. Also gold stares to 2 brothers who make the effort once a month to make the trip to see dad and allow me out
Barbara says
Hi Jon! I regularly connect with like minded individuals who actually come to my home for a meeting once weekly! I really value my family, brother and daughter for having my back always, for helping me when I need it, and for being my sounding board…and I am really very grateful that I have these connections and this support. Thanks! Have a wonderful week! Hugs, Barbara xxxx
Peter Gron says
Currently, Jon, you are my support. Your wit, humour, wisdom and inspiring words are what keeps me going. I’ve always been a one man team, and had some success but I have realized I need more – a team. My negative wife is focussed on the few failures I’ve had, but as I tell my team at work “those who don’t make mistakes aren’t doing enough”.
I need some help and support and in writing this I’ve had an idea. Thanks Jon.
renata says
i just realized that i dont have anybody close to me that motivates me or give me power. my first thoughts were that it is sad but no, it is not. i have few good friends that support me and give good, honest advice but none of them are into business like me. i also realize that i motivate myself and give myself a kick in a back side if i need it. i have “meetings” with myself that i review my performance, issues and difficulties.
also talking to like minded people always help.
Easy - says
Hi there Jon. ? Not easy to make and bank money ?.. Sounds easy…
Jane says
My power pack are my 2 wonderful friends whom I walk with on a Friday morning along the beach walking path. They always are grateful for what we have socially & environmentally, are wise, see things from different perspectives, are inspiring & encouraging. We all feel very very fortunate to have each other.
Pete says
My power pack is a group of my 2 or 3 closest friends, and I usually connect with them by arranging a dinner or some other get-together once a month. Due to busy schedules, it often turns out that not all of them are available. Even catching up with them individually, it’s still a great chance to toss around ideas and feel supported and encouraged.
Gonna be a bit difficult to do more of it this year, as I’m moving from Sydney to Canberra… but this will be an opportunity to set up a new power pack in a new City!
Glenn Adams says
I get a lot out of just having some friends around for dinner and solving the world’s problems. This will be easier for me to do now as I have just finished building my wood fired pizza oven, this means many nights with my pack building on our strengths.
Daniel says
My pack consists of my wife and two kids. We all moved to Australia 5 years ago and this was a fabulous opportunity to really connect and become a team. Before moving here I was working long hours and hardly ever saw them. Having set up a small business in Australia from the start, for which I work from home, has allowed my kids to get to know me, and me to get to really know them. I am so grateful that this happened in our lives when they were so young!
We do a nightly activity right before bed when we all share at least 3 things that each one liked or enjoyed of their day, this allows us to, not only know what each one values in their everyday life, but to help us all attract more of this into our lives.
This is my pack, this is where I feel my powerful connection of being and gives me a sense of purpose for the difficult challenges that we have faced by being all alone in this far away country which we now call home 🙂
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Jarrod Riley says
When my wife gives me a compliment about being a good dad, husband, anything (lover 😉 it lifts me up every time. She’s grouse!
Damian Phillips says
Hey John
Some of these challenges really make one deeply think about ones situation.
I have great friends and family though coming from FIFO and various other construction jobs I don’t consider I have a support pack that I look to for encouragement.
I do love your posts and find these to be inspirational and I often think how I can use some of your ideas.
This year I would like to give more support to my wife and thank people for the extremely small things that get overlooked.
I have sent a couple messages to important people ( Names not required) just to say thanks.
Cheers
stephen booker says
I must admit i was feeling a bit wanting at the thought that i don’t have a group mentality, at least one from whom I draw confidence and power. There are a great number of colleagues that I talk to professionally and share frustrations and achievements and do likewise for them, and I always acknowledge to them that they have given me something valuable and enjoyable. I know those people would defend me.
I am working on my life partner to try to get her to share and do the mutuality and reciprocity thing. My late wife and I hd come to achieve that …and then she died.
Nathalie Sarlin says
My husband is a huge supporter and a select group of besties from long ago and more recent. I recently recharged by spending two days just with my husband and unplugging from the world to reconnect and refocus our lives. Will definitely be doing that more often and I’m very lucky that all my besties live locally and we see each other regularly. Don’t know what I’d do without them – we all have each other’s backs and it’s great.
David Brown says
After walking away from 34 years marriage that fell apart, plus being hurt at work with an employer not realize I had been hurt, plus to top everything off my mother die. That was 2013.
The next 3 years was working out a divorce, worker comp. Plus a loss of a family member. Then to add to this my son loss the plot turning to drugs, etc.
But from all the bad news in 2013, becoming a grandfather for the first time was great.
Meet Liz in January 2014 was, one of those meetings you read about, we have been together now 5 years, without no misunderstanding or why did you do that?
Both of us did walk away from a relationship that was just going no were! We agree that what we have in a super fund will not last long. Being in that group of people who didn’t start saving until it was required in the ’90s.
As for friends most of mine are all over the place, been an arm force child we move after a number of years. Or become friends of your partner. Most of the times your true friends will shine through when your chips are down.
Carolyn says
my children are my support crew. i don’t really have anyone else. i probably do but don’t realise it.trying not to feel like i’m on my own when i’m not.
don;t really have anyone to send a note to.
Chas says
My Fam has got my back. Specifically my brother we are best mates and both driven and business minded. He is good to bounce ideas off and pick me up when I am feeling down and out.
Debra Maloney says
My Husband is my Support I try to work on Ideas with him when he is Home.
Elle says
Feminine energy from soul sisters. Committing to going to the retreat and dancing together freely like no one is watching.
Sondra Bellert says
I recently reached out to the ILRE community in relation to renovation tradie recommendations and made contact with a fellow member who lives the next suburb to me. We chatted on the phone and she invited me to meet up with her and some other ILRE mums every Friday to geek out on property and talk about things other than nappies etc. I’m excited to be connecting in person with some like minded mums who understand and will provide much needed support in this industry.
Jennifer says
My pack is my husband. We make a great team and have worked so hard together over the years but are finally getting somehwhere. So many times our lives have been like scenes from The Amazing Race.
As the years go on I do tend to focus on the things he does that annoy me when I should be focused on all his amazing qualities.
Braden Wright says
I tend to sit on the side lines in regards with a really great quality like minded Facebook group that love property like myself, renovation and development. I am a little bit addicted to joining these groups and learning a whole lot from sitting back and reading all the posts but not getting involved. This year I will now make it a priority to get more involved and participate rather than be on the sidelines.
I pay a lot of money for personal coaching and development and find this my biggest support, along with catching up with good friends who all own their own business’s. I really enjoy the common interest we have in business.
This year I am also going back to playing soccer, which I have not been involved in team sport for 15 years now. Really looking forward to that!!
Marija Barclay says
Thinking about this has made me realise how isolated I feel and that I have lost regular touch with my old pack. It’s time to put some energy back into these old relationships and expand and create a new pack/s.
Josh says
I fell supported when a friend or family member asks me for advice or an opinion on something that is important to them. To think they want little old ‘me’ to have an input on certain things is super uplifting. I want to nurture that by being available and confident enough to show that I can help when needed.
Gav says
My pack is my wife and her family….I want to develop a couple more solid friendships but feel a bit overwhelmed with the “pressures” on me (both real and imagined)….gain empowerment from mentors and looking to connect more with other communities this year eb Meetup groups
Carlijn says
My powerpack is without a doubt so much bigger than I gave myself credit for. I have this amazing capacitiy for cultivating friends/family around me who inspire me and give me purpose and who teach me so much just by living the life they do. Being so positive and grounded, laughing easily, taking responsibility for their own lives and failures and successes. The only drawback in this scenario is the fact that I am aware I take more than I give back. I even lost a friend because of the way I took her and her generosity for granted. A huge lesson learnt and taught me to be more humble and appreciative.
I finally learn to also tap into my own power as well and not to see each failure as another part of me gone down the drain forever; I just dust myself off and try again.
I feel much more connected all around really and it has been a difficult journey but worth every step.
apri kohlmann says
Myself and three other women have a zoom session every week where we get to discuss our week and the week ahead and give and receive support. It is a great support network and there is no judging only support and questions to inspire us to analyse situations and move forward. I am very very grateful for these women.
maree says
I found this a very resonating challenge. Connection. I have moved back (nz) to spend time with my parents for a few months. ( mum has dementia and before she forgets me..is valuable time) In early years 20 something.., I did not see property investing ( Dad renovated and sold etc and was real estate agent) as something I could do or should do. When looking at second career, in later years, I have embraced the property investing journey…using those Reno skills learnt from dad. But have always wanted to prove that I could do it, without their help..that I should be able to do it, by myself. And yes I can, with education from Ultimate/platimum – pack support + mentors ( big thanks). But have to say, that Dad/family are number one, pack support. With parental support and their keen interest, I have an offer in final stages on a multi flat scenario. ( cashflow +ive) from day one. And they love the journey too.
Ad says
Tell us what it is that makes you feel supported by your pack, and how you’re planning to tap more of that energy this year.
Heading back home once in a year to live with Dad, usually for a month. Also catch up with sister and her family once every other week.
My regular catch up with friends that I’ve made over the years in the industry. These are all ex-colleagues and/or 1up managers. These provide me the connection that I need as a social animal.
I also produced more than 2 kids to be able to foster the human connection more and more as I grow old.
Phil Pollard says
I meet with my Power Pack every 3 or 4 months over a weeknight dinner. Four other former work colleagues that have continued to grow and expand in life. We energise each other with a complete freedom of speech and inspiring stories and declare our future short term goals.
Bonus
I rang another former colleague that I know is travelling a similar journey and we were able to assist each other on different projects that we were working on
There are no mistakes … thanks 🙂
Mark Gardner says
My wife,daughter, dad and band/s I play in are my power bank. They always have my back . In fact this year I’m going to make more of an effort to be there for my daughter as diagnosed with ASD I’m sure I’ll learn more off her as we read together more.
Family always ignited the flame and my band mates forever keep me centred and we always find ways to improve ourselves and re-energise and discuss short to long term goals together .
I’ve reconnected with another friend outside of the realm of work & music and shared the road together and ensuring that we both keep in contact and compare goals to help gain and improve our lives . No fear .
steph says
We’re created for connection, made for community! sometimes we think we can do it alone but NOT SO – I’ve just been reading a book Launch Your Dreams where the author states how important it is to be surrounded by a community that can encourage us in our exploits.
So I took that on board and signed up for Coaching!!
Sheila Dohnt says
I get a real buz when a long term friend of mine gives me a call,.
We go back 25yrs and they now live in another state.
Kunal says
Going for spiritual sessions every weekend gives me good support as the community is very welcoming, Also, taking to old school friends and sharing your life is another big one….
Donna says
I have two bands of girlfriends that inspire and encourage me.
More recently, I’ve been excited by new friends I’ve made in Albury who are part of I❤️RealEstate
David Thorpe says
I really feel that people have my back when they acknowledge that even if I fail at the task they will support me to bounce back.
Jodi Taylor says
I have my own network on LinkedIn. I think knowledge is power and love sharing with others, and learning from their experiences as well.
My best friend inspires me. But I’m thankful for all in my my lifei
Kelli Readon says
My circle of friends understands my situation – they don’t try to talk me out of things – or provide solutions – they are simply there for me, regardless.
Lynne Burns says
My Children
Softball team
Bianca says
My power pack are a couple of my close friends I run events with and all the beautiful ladies I see in my Nia classes. I also connect with a variety of spiritual events on FB that fill me up. This year I will attend as many classes I can and ensure I connect with other events as well to maintain balance in my life.
Corrine Gough says
My bestie Maz always has my back and I always have hers. Maz always gives me positive outlook on everything. We have been friends for 26 years. We will connect even more this year as I’m doing renos on my house and she is amazing with ideas! (It’s her thing). I will let her know how much I appreciate her in a text.
Kacey says
1.) Husband – He’s very knowledgeable, level minded and gives me support with our children
2.) Father – Teaches a calmness and creates a positive environment
3.) Best friend – Great listener and sense of humor
Bonus Round.
Reached out to a teammate through my sporting club, after finding out she was having a hard time personally. Excited to say we are catching up tomorrow.
Luke says
Keeping regular contact with positive driven & humorous friends.
Reading the positive inspiring emails you and others alike write Jon. Thanks!
GINA says
OMG I do this one all the time. I love reaching out to my close friends and family.
Everyday I kiss and say how important my boys and husband are, even when my teenage boy tries to get away.
I have two dear friends, one who gets me, and I can poor my soul out too, I am always sending her little notes of gratitute.
My best friend, I have just got her a friendship note book that has verses and comments to her from me as to how I see our friendship.
tristan says
I have a relatively new mate who is good to catch up with as there is very little negativity espoused in our conversations together. Although our lives are very different, we have similar goals for how to achieve financial freedom and it is rejuvenating to discuss these. It keeps me on track at some times when life can begin to muddy the waters. We catch up roughly every fortnight or so. I have made a point of mentioning this to him when we spoke yesterday and will endeavor to continue to catch up regularly this year.
Jacki says
Having just moved to town I dont have support here so I’ve been setting up some volunteer gigs helping people with literacy & mentoring kids to get to know locals
Graham Cooper says
Well firstly;
There is family, if they are not with you, you are “on your own”
My wife of 42 years….she questions most of my actions….to keep me “grounded”
My customers are fabulous, I have made them many fortunes so they keep coming back for more,
I get a lot of repeat business and referrals, we are like family.
Bonus Round: I have inadvertently saved 2 people ( not Customers ) from suicide just by making a caring R U OK, phone call. It still upsets me to think what would have happened if I did not call.
I have come to realize that we ALL serve a purpose in this world.
Richard says
My family are my first and foremost connection. We see our daughters and grandies every opportunity we get. Great laughs and memories around dinner/ lunch/ BBQ.
Other connection are our friends… that reminds me I must call them and arrange to meet up for lunch.
J says
I have lots of really ‘close friends’
3 in particular – so the 4 of us regularly get to gather for a ‘power pack’
I regularly send them thanks and appreciation for being in my life
Danielle Kelly says
I have a group of girlfriends that I catch up with once every couple of months. I always feel energised after talking with them, it’s so great to share with people who really listen and are interested in your life.
Nathan says
Hanging out with people who are growing and talking about or growth journey. When I get to explore or work through a challenge with a friend, or help them to explore or overcome one. To make more time for intentional conversations that fuel me.
Inna says
Connection with myself.
Connection with my husband.
I love doing things together, having cup of tea, travelling, bush walking, property inspections etc.
Adriana says
I connect to my power pack by speaking with my sister and reading success stories from the ILRE community.
Marie says
I’m lucky enough to have a strong family power pack where I get strength and support from them in whatever I do. My husband and two adult sons are particularly awesome and am very grateful to have them
ALISON says
My best friend of 46 years is my rock. If i killed someone she’d just ask “where’s the shovel, Ill help you bury the body” and now I have the most loving and supportive fiancée to share my journey. The ILRE community is there too and although I have lacked the confidence to connect, I will make a point of connecting with them more and more this year.
ScottB says
Being creative for others is time consuming & mentally draining BUT when it’s finished I feel accomplished.
I feel supported by cliental who like my work & a friend I catch up with once in a while & he cuts to the chase.”what have I done for myself today”? I thin I’ll catch up more with myself & friends this year.
I stay inspired by instagram posts ( time poor) with post I like, people are so creative & inspiring.
Brett says
There is nothing much more enthusing than bouncing ideas around with your business piers and similar struggles are exposed! Even better when solutions are pointed out! This I need to do more.